if nice is part of your persona... so much so that it can be said you are defined by it... what can you do? keep being nice to stay "true" to urself? to stick to your definition? otherwise.... will you just be a big question mark?

what do you become if u are not who people think you are or even who you think you are.

being nice is like a cover? a way to avoid conflict. avoid conflict=highest motto in life? so that pple can like me? so i wun be isolated? so... will be nice = fake? or real me? fucking popularity contest?

you said in a way being nice defines you. and it makes you happy. so you continue to be nice.

i guess we are similar that way... cept my nice is marred by fear...
I pride myself on my real? and being diplomatic enough.... i'm not social butterfly material. i'm well aware of that. but if you take away everything.... what am I?....

identity crisis? do I have to be defined by someone else? or are humans never meant to be defined at all? lest it traps them in a circle and limits them?

happy to see other people happy? or happy because whn others are happy they dun hate you?



wow.... thank you sec 3 life. you really fucked me up real good.....